In my last blog I shared how I’m learning to love just to love irrespective of other person receiving it or reciprocating to it. Today I’m seeing what may stop the other person from receiving my love. One way to look at is that they are not understanding my language of love. They may not be able to trust that someone can love without expecting too. Start to see that we have stopped trusting completely. If someone does something for us, we suspect that they have an agenda.
And if someone is nice to you, you can’t take it on face value many times. And if a close family member scolds you, you get angry rather than getting their love. It’s because they love you that they scold you when they fear something is not working with you. So the language of love is different for different people.
And so when people in your life love you in a language you don’t understand. For ex., mother scolding you is her love, father stops you out of love , husband or wife preaches out of concern...... But We end up seeing the tone and words used rather seeing the love behind that. Let’s start to discover the love behind everything with our loved ones and learning to trust when anyone speaks lovingly to us.
A trusting day to you š
Love comes to us and we love other are in n ways ,
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