On the journey of our growing up, we were taught what is right and wrong, good and bad behaviour. But very few adults told us why it is good or bad and right or wrong. And so we started to live by those rules blindly as if our life depends on it. And also teaching our children the same. But look again and answer for yourself what, when, why, where and how of these rules. Then we can have our children reason it out and understand for themselves.
So it’s ok to be ok many a times. However, what we need to be careful about is how we are impacting our friends and family. So it’s perfectly fine to not live by the rules rather than forcefully doing them and feel stressed. However, it’s also necessary to be responsible how this act of ours is communicated to others. With what experience are the concerned people left is critical. So if you can communicate to them that you need your me time, apologise for the broken promise and reduce the damage leaving them complete, then that would create Love. Else the above behaviour would be construed as arrogance. So know the difference.
A communicative morning 😃
The good thing is there is a sequential order Im relating to reading everyday blog. Being present to breathing ,the next day the world of solitude and now the altitudes of communication. I could follow up in an order where i could recall this things easily. Thank you Padma... cheers. Happy weekend.
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